Move decisively towards the life you are envisioning. It is when you no longer can tolerate your present situation that you will create a new future! Se it clearly, think about it, dream it and speak about it. Make sure that you every day take one or more steps in that direction. How do you eat an elephant? Just one bit at a time! You can succeed and you will succeed when you start moving in the right direction!
Isaiah 43,18-19: «Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the desert and streams in the wasteland.”